A dating app, through your friends

Meet friends of friends.

Everyone you meet on BeTo is introduced by someone you both know. Your post of letters arrives every evening at 6pm.

Launching in Singapore · 28 December, 6pm

Taken? and introduce your friends.

Every evening at 6pm:
three introductions, at most.

A friend’s note leads the post.

Chloe knows you both. When a friend writes about someone, their letter comes first.

Curious? Ask Jun first.

Jun knows Nadia. “Ask Jun” opens your chat with him — and sends nothing until you write.

A little further out.

You and Lina don’t share a friend, but some of your friends’ friends know her. Who they are stays private.

Today’s post

Next at 6pm

Three introductions. Open the ones you like; the rest go quietly at 6pm tomorrow.

Your friend Chloe wrote about Maya Ask Chloe

Mei knows them too

Maya, smiling in a red top by the sea
Maya, 26

Funniest person I know, and a genuinely good cook.

— Chloe

You both likecookingfilm

You said yes
Your friend Jun knows Nadia Ask Jun

Dev knows them too

Nadia, laughing among green leaves in a bright patterned shirt
Nadia, 25

You both likeclimbingcoffee

You said yes
In your network 4 friends of friends know them
Lina, smiling in front of a painted wall
Lina, 27

You both likehikingjazz

You said yes

Not interested? Just leave it. No one is ever told you passed.

  1. It starts with your friends.
  2. Their friends are the people you’ll meet.
  3. Past them, your network: people your friends’ friends know. Who links you stays private.
  4. Some friends are your wingmen: they can introduce you to anyone they know.

Wingmen

Let a friend set you up.

A wingman is a friend who plays matchmaker. When they think you’d get on with someone they know, they write each of you a private note about the other.

Your wingman Farid thinks you should meet

Arjun knows every hawker stall worth queueing for. You two will be arguing about the best chicken rice within a minute — trust me.

— Farid
Arjun, smiling
Arjun, 28
You said yes
Farid, Arjun & you
Farid introduced you
  1. FaridYou two. Chicken rice. Go.
  2. ArjunTian Tian, obviously 😄
  3. Wrong. Saturday? I’ll prove it.
  1. i.

    Farid thinks you and Arjun would click. He writes you a note about Arjun, and Arjun one about you.

  2. ii.

    You see yours first. If you’re not keen, Arjun never hears about it, and Farid isn’t told.

  3. iii.

    If you both say yes, the three of you get a group chat.

Only friends of friends. Three a day, at most. Say nothing to pass; no one is ever told.

Taken? Be the wingman.

Join BeTo to introduce your friends. You’ll never be in anyone’s post — you’re there to make the introductions, and to sit in the chat when two of them say yes.

In the app it’s one switch: I’m taken.

Join as a wingman

Try it — you know them both.

Hana Reads more than you do
Theo Argues about endings

To Hana, about Theo He’ll argue about how a book ends like it matters, because to him it does. — You

To Theo, about Hana She’ll lend you three books and want them back, annotated. — You

Dear BeTo,

Save me a place in the first post.

The first post is made from who joins early — the more of your friends are in, the better yours will be.

Which describes you?

We’ll only write about BeTo’s launch. No spam, no sharing.

Seal and send

The first post goes out in

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